Friday, July 29, 2011

Teach me to love...

We have a fish tank at home ever since I was a little kid. But I always disliked it as fishes have shorter life span. I could never get attached or take up a liking for them. As I grew up sometimes I had to clean the filter, check on oxygen, put plants and food when my parents were away or when mom insisted if she was busy or tired. So I would and I still do it as some household chores we perform whether we like it or not. 

The minute I put my hand in the tank all the fishes instantaneously swim away. However few years back I met a beautiful gold fish (Goldie) who was quite different. When I would put my hand into the water, Goldie would swim towards me, get his long tail and fins entangled in my fingers and swim in zig-zag fashion. It was phenomenal!!! Goldie would do that only to my hand. Mom and everywhere at home would enjoy seeing it. Things changed for me a bit then. All of a sudden I was in love...I was attached! It lasted for around 7-8 months. One morning Mom said, Goldie is dying. I rushed towards the tank put my hand in and held him. I entangled his tail and fins in my fingers, Goldie didn't swim. I gently rubbed his tummy and said, common buddy do it. He didn't. He was breathing very slowly. I couldn't watch him die. I left the scene...

This all feels like a dream but was true. I still clean the filter, check on oxygen, put plants and food...but everything is just a chore!!



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Sunday, May 2, 2010

Read or Ignore... Forget or Reflect...


In our daily lives we come across many messages on our way. Sometimes on a wall, sometimes on someone’s desk or even a lesser unlikely place like a menu card. What we do it with is merely our choice. Read or Ignore... Forget or Reflect...

During my recent trip to Himachal I came across 3 interesting messages, which I felt  were surely worth more than a moment’s notice.

1)      At monastery of Dalai Lama, McLeod Ganj
 



2)      Library of Tibetan Works and Archives, Dharamsala


 We will be celebrating 63rd years of independence this year and someone, someplace hasn’t even begun.


3)      On a menu card in Manali
 





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Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Have we flexed our arms and shoulders lately…


Sunday, 6 p.m. I’m home. I'm lazy. The doorbell rings. My 6-year old niece pays me a visit. She looks up… all smiles, twinkling eyes and stories to tell. In a flash I’m all charged-up. My arms wide-open and I pick her up. For next few hours we are blissfully oblivious… giggling and perfect!

Holding, assuring, and soothing that has been prime functions of our arms and shoulders. Hey that’s kind of easy… yet have we flexed them lately? 




 
 

 
   




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